Lala Sloatman Exclusive Interview – Be Your Own Biggest Cheerleader, Don’t Pick On Yourself
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Lala Sloatman was recently interviewed by TheCelebrity.Online Magazine and here is the Q&A session we had with Lala.

Lala Sloatman As Cover Story Interview – March 2026 Magazine Edition

How do you introduce yourself?

Hi, I’m Lala, no, it’s not short for anything, yes, one word, exactly like the yellow Tellatuby, yes. I am a mom to an amazing daughter, which has helped me heal full circle, having missed out on my mother’s presence for most of my childhood. I’m a goofball, a free spirit, a highly sensitive being, and I have an impeccable eye for beauty and style. I’m also an actress who’s been on a hiatus for fourteen years. I didn’t think I would return, but lo and behold, a friend of mine wrote a multi-layer beautiful human experience part for me, and I am BACK, ready to take on the world. I’m also in the costume union. I’ve been dressing other people on the other side of the camera. I’m a good listener and friend, I have a witty sense of humour sometimes, it’s on point, and I feel like I could be a comedian, but those are rare, kinda like those days when you suddenly bowl strike after strike, but 80% of the time it’s gutter balls.

I’m immensely moved by art and music design, all things creative – I’d be happiest somewhere in Scotland or the Faroe Islands. My favourite thing to do is hang out with my kid, watch TV, and eat something homey like pasta with asparagus and peas, steak fries, ranch dressing and a dessert of some kind.

What has been your biggest struggle?

My greatest struggle has been learning how to put myself first. I grew up with a caregiver who told me early on that people didn’t like me – when you hear that from your caregiver, it becomes a deep subconscious truth. Deprogramming has been the most embarrassing and painful thing – I’ve faced a significant amount of loss and grief. I have intrusive thoughts all day, and I dream about them – they only say negative things. It’s been chalanging to reframe every single thought throught my life – I didn’t care to many years I wanted to escape like my mother did but having a tiny beautidul firey little girl with the same knees I always covered, ame hair I couldnt stand, some eyes I saw as puffy allowed me to start loving myself because I loved her so much those knees became something I was proud of the hair fucking thick and gorgeous the eyes -well who cares I love who I am now finally.

What’s something people don’t know about you?

I almost got the role of Ginger in Casino – I screen tested with Robert Deniro three times – Sharon Stone wanted the part. I ran into Mr. Deniro twice during the audition process, and both times he sent me a drink to my table. I thought it was in the bag! I wouldn’t have done the role justice back then, but it’s a fun story.

What sets you apart from others?

It’s great, but I hope people see it. I’m proud of it. I’m so thankful for this opportunity and character. It’s the reason I want to audition again and play characters- I don’t think I ever wanted to be an actress, I wanted to be famous, but I didn’t believe I was good in most of the parts I played, maybe Pump Up the Volume and Manfast.I was so hard on myself that I hated doing it, but now I love it and have found a depth and freedom in it that bring me joy.

What’s next for you?

I’m continuing to act and build work that reflects who I am now — not the version of me that performed for approval, but the woman I’ve become. I’m building income streams that create freedom and choice for my daughter and for myself.

I’m also working with a ghostwriter on my memoir. It’s not about nostalgia — it’s about truth. I want to tell the full story of grief, addiction, loss, chronic illness, and rebuilding so that people who feel erased or misunderstood know they’re not alone. At home, I’m raising a teenage daughter who inspires me daily. Her generation sees the world differently. The humor many of us were raised on in the ’90s — jokes that casually touched on sexual preference — is confusing to her. She genuinely can’t understand how that was ever considered funny. To her and her friends, they’re not entitled; they’re more grounded. Acceptance isn’t political to them. It’s baseline. They have clear boundaries. They expect respect. They stand up for what feels right. That gives me real hope. I have enormous faith in Generation Z. And I’m proud to be the mother of one of them.

What advice would you give?

If you have a fire inside you to become something, don’t abandon it just because the people around you don’t understand it. Desire isn’t random. It’s directional. Be your own biggest cheerleader. Don’t pick on yourself. If you keep choosing people who don’t choose you, or habits that hurt you, ask why. Do the healing. Deal with your trauma so you don’t carry it into the next chapter of your life.

Surround yourself with people who mirror your highest good — who celebrate your craft and your growth. If someone doesn’t choose you, they don’t get unlimited access to you. No one else can do the inner work for you. But you also can’t do life alone. We need community. Find your tribe — and hold on tight. Always laugh at yourself – if you feel tired, rest, but no matter what, love yourself without interruption – it’s a non-negotiable

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